Okay, so here’s a RAD!CAL
notion: how about, if you wish to eliminate misogyny, you begin by
dispossessing yourself of misandry? I’m pretty sure that none of you ladies
would prefer to live in a patriarchal society that determines your entire
station in life based upon some binding, universalized standard for physical
beauty and engendered behaviourism, so if you maintain that this has been your
plight throughout history, why allow yourself the shame of perpetuating the
cycle of abuse? The entire distinction of alphas and betas, presumably
beginning in Huxley’s dystopian novel Brave New World, is evocative of a rigid class
structure that is perpetuated with the consent of an oppressed populace that is
happy in slavery, despite its looming and terrifying problems. I should make
clear that I AM sympathetic, to an extent, with the distinction. Obviously,
female autonomy in sexual affairs implies that every heterosexual woman has a “first
choice” in selecting mates, and this implies the possibility of a “runner-up”.
In this sense, the distinction of alpha and beta is valid, RELATIVELY, and only
so, for the nature of a man’s status in this case depends entirely upon the woman
in question. Why, then, must this be universalized? Obviously, a rational woman
would not allow her purely personal preferences to be skewed by public opinion,
since she would only by so doing be empowering the same society which seeks to
restrict her freedom. A man may be YOUR first choice, but he ought not to be
EVERY woman’s first choice, and you have nothing to gain by desiring a man BECAUSE
he is already desired by others; you only predispose yourself and others, often
against their will, to competition and confusion, devoid of genuine intimacy
and trust, and EVERYBODY loses in such a conflict. Furthermore, if men were
possessed of the notion that being coveted by multiple women were desirable,
they would take this aggressive and uncompromising attitude WITH them into
politics, psychology, religion, and the arts and sciences, which is precisely
what your project is attempting to mitigate and to inoculate. If WOMEN were
allowed to emulate this sort of behavior, instead of feeling ashamed for it,
then they would be no better than the WORST men in these professions, and the
BEST men would have found a reason to grudgingly restrict the social mobility
of these unruly and irrational women. Do not fall for it.
P.S.: There appears to
be a growing terror in the opinion that while men will judge you superficially
in order to determine whether or not to sleep with you, women will use the same
criteria to determine whether or not a man will RAPE them. More often than not,
these “beta males” are well-rounded individuals with very well-integrated
animas. While the stereotype appears to be that a man who is involuntarily
celibate is somehow maladjusted, experience shows that plenty of men with
neurotic complexes regarding women are disproportionately active sexually,
simply because women are willing to assume the same toxic roles which these men
project upon them and venerate accordingly. Men with healthy, integrated animas
tend to see only the best in women, UNTIL THEIR GENEROUS EXPECTATIONS ARE
DISAPPOINTED, usually by rejection on shady grounds. Conversely, the women who
tend to reject these men will often reject them irrespective of their actual,
real-world qualifications, simply based upon an unintegrated animus. What women
consider “creepy” in a man is obviously not the man’s responsibility, since
these irrational feelings of contempt for strangers are invariably the products
of our own projections; in the case of the heterosexual woman, it is a
projection of her own repressed masculinity, and often only hyperfeminine women
tend to make these projections. A “beta male” is simply one who tends to
resemble the negative animus, the unfavourable father, or the “bad cop”. (as
you can imagine, law enforcement exploits these infantile projections to the
point of cliché.) Alpha males do not in fact CONTAIN any of the positive
qualities which women ascribe to them; they REPRESENT them. A growing man cannot
spend his entire life conforming to Mother’s wishes for what a good boy ought
to be, and a growing woman must come to terms with Daddy.
[({Dm.A.A.)}]
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