ADM!TTANCE:

A great many women do not wish to admit that they find agreeableness in men unattractive, though of course they have an odd way of expressing this disbelief. Instead of encouraging us to adhere to what is most sacred in our Souls, to shelter it against a World that not only turns its nose up at kindness but which rewards barbarity, even treating kindness with suspicion, these women extrapolate from their own experiences to excess. They have no way of knowing what it is that drives any ONE woman to reject any ONE man, but they tend to presume, inexplicably, that that woman will have the same reasons as ANY woman. This is not only absolutist and authoritarian, but it is irrational as well. By making this presumption, a woman presumes that any man who is alone DESERVES to be that way. However, in my own experience, I must say that MOST women do not supply reasons at ALL, and for you to universalize your own reasons would be to lend them an excuse. Even if the principles which you appeal to could be more precious than Kindness, enough so that they might validate the AUTHENTICITY of Kindness and its rewards, it would be impossible for you to prove, as well as preposterous for you to presume, that in every instance wherein a man is rejected in SPITE of his kindness, (if not TO spite his kindness,) that it was HE who was at fault, for the sheer number of women who do not even CITE your universal reasons abstain from that entire discussion, so the generalization cannot even be proven true, nor to be applicable, on a case-by-case basis.

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